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Originally posted by get_nick@Nov 18 2003, 12:33 AM
She is SUPER HOT (i can post pics if anybody wants to see!) and she is very smart. so far she is EXACTLY what i am looking for. but here's my question's.
1.She wants to be exclusive, do i commit 100% to a girl i haven't met in person?
2.How long do i give it before i say,"we meet in person or i don't want to talk to you anymore."
3. Is there any chance this can turn into a normal relationship?
4. has anybody had internet relationships that can give me advice?
Originally posted by kaishaku@Nov 18 2003, 12:05 PM
DANGER WILL ROBINSON
Long distance/online relationships are Always A Bad Idea. Repeat this 200x.
Originally posted by get_nick@Nov 18 2003, 12:33 AM
Ok, heres the deal. I'm not much of a computer person. i only scored 2.2% on the geek test, so internet relationships aren't really my style. I met this girl on a meet people website. we matched and started to email each other. then we moved to chatting and now we talk on the phone all the time and still do the chat thing. we talk 2 or 3 times a day and everything is cool. we still haven't met yet in person and she only lives 2 hours away. She is scared to meet because she thinks i won't like her in person and she is scared to fall in love because she doesn't want to get hurt again. so in short she wants to wait to meet. She is SUPER HOT (i can post pics if anybody wants to see!) and she is very smart. so far she is EXACTLY what i am looking for. but here's my question's.
1.She wants to be exclusive, do i commit 100% to a girl i haven't met in person?
2.How long do i give it before i say,"we meet in person or i don't want to talk to you anymore."
3. Is there any chance this can turn into a normal relationship?
4. has anybody had internet relationships that can give me advice?
Originally posted by sleepergtx@Nov 18 2003, 03:17 PM
wow...twins...they ever try to fuck with you or can you tell em apart now that you've known the one for a year? I'd still have a problem tellin them apart. I went to school with twins and teh only way to tell them apart was Brooke was a complete bitch to everyone that wasn't her friend and the other one, Heather, wasn't.
Originally posted by sleepergtx@Nov 18 2003, 12:36 PM
ok now that I read the rest of the thread and looked at the pics...she does look fake...but good. How can a girl that good looking have trouble finding some fucknut out in the real world? She either has some serious psychotic issues you don't want to know about, or she's the shittiest conversationalist you'll ever meet.
Originally posted by get_nick+Nov 18 2003, 06:14 PM-->sleepergtx@Nov 18 2003, 12:36 PM
ok now that I read the rest of the thread and looked at the pics...she does look fake...but good. How can a girl that good looking have trouble finding some fucknut out in the real world? She either has some serious psychotic issues you don't want to know about, or she's the shittiest conversationalist you'll ever meet.
She doesn't have any problems finding guys. Like 99% of women, she too was scarred by some douche bag who treated her like shit. That's where all the issues come from. And she only lives 2 hours away so it would be easy to meet or stay the night with her. so i don't really know what to think about all of it. i just know how things are right now. i want to meet really bad. so how do i help her get over the fear of being hurt again?
Originally posted by SimSimma@Nov 18 2003, 02:01 PM
you should DEFINITELY meet her. if it wasn't for the internet i would have never met my amazing man... but i don't tell anyone that...i keep it our little secret. and we have the best relationship now. go for it. ya never know...
p.s. if she's nervous to meet you, that doesn't mean there's something wrong with her that you can't see. i was soooo nervous to meet the first time too. but now i feel like i've known him my whole life. if she lives far away though, ask yourself if you really think it could work out in the future, long distance relationships are hard and you don't want a relationship based solely online. ok that's it.