I never needed this until now.
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+1. The girl I havent seen in years ended up being married with kids and I think Ive got more of a shot w/her
ph34r after starting out with "How've you been? Long time no see" on facebook. And we had even ended up on a sour note the last time I saw her.
bahaha...
dacheat
..is grounded.
went over my head.
huh?
huh?
UNDR8D
...has a job!
I think she was put off by it but has enough tact to write back...The only way that could have worked was if she felt the EXACT same way about you, unprompted...
dacheat
..is grounded.
it's all a game of grab the boobies (chest). and it's his move.
lol. ok maybe it was a reach.
Well fortunately for me, I know the type of person she is and I know the type of person you think she is. I haven't seen her for 5 years and I know they're not one in the same.
My friends wife... the one that called me an alcoholic from the other thread... told me she was going to try to 'hook me up' with one of her friends, so I may not even have to try to skirt around trying to find a way to get sarah to go out with me. We'll see how this all goes.
You like dudes you haven't seen 5 years coming around and getting a handful of hoo hoos?it's all a game of grab the boobies (chest). and it's his move.
lol. ok maybe it was a reach.
dacheat
..is grounded.
it's the story of my fucking life.
mine too :weep:
UNDR8D
...has a job!
I don't know either of you. I am just making educated guesses based on experience and observation.
You presented your situation to us and now we are telling you how we REALLY feel.
Bottom Line: Messaging (or emailing) a girl you haven't seen in 5 years and had some kind of connection with once for a couple weeks, in the way that you did, is WAY too forward. A one liner "hey remember me" would have been sufficient. Instead you put all your cards out on the table. The potential reward was that you cut right to the chase and if she did feel the same, you could get right down to business. The potential risks though are that she doesn't really remember you or your encounter all that well and is like WTF? Then any chance you have to introduce yourself and make a good impression is lost. I think the risks heavily outweigh the rewards in your approach.
I have no pretenses about you or this girl. Just some analysis...
Sounds like fun. Haha.it's the story of my fucking life.
