i dont know if this thread is still on topic or not, but lately i have even said those words "Babe, i am just too tired" and i really am. Ive been working like a mad man the last few weeks (note the lack of my presence until recently), and id rather sleep. I think every day might actually kill me in my current condition. Yes, its difficult for a guy to say no, but I can do it, and im sure, if B was working his ass off again while he had a serious g/f he would be able to say no.