Martine,
if you had read the last post i made in this thread, you'd see i agreed with everyone, saying i was a fucking moron. so, i did something stupid in my life. so i didn't think about him before i thought of my own feelings. isn't this part of being human? look, i did something stupid. i won't do it again.
things happen. i made a mistake. now, can we all just move the fuck on?
i don't need to start an argument, but i think this was well over and done with, without you needing to 'vent' your opinion which was JUST like everyone elses, and after i'd admitted i made a mistake.