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what to do?
If you want to break free of this crap you need to rent a super cheap place.
Get the altima as presentable as you can and sell it.
Tell your mom to buy her own car.
Sell the montero.
Keep the 99 honda and leave it alone, it'll last forever.
Buy another decent honda.
you dont need it. you WANT it.
this need thing is going to cost you thousands of dollars.
DO NOT go buy a new car, or a $15k car for that matter.
Scrape together whatever cash you can. Look at that amount and find a car that you can pay cash for.
no payments. take liability on it.
You've just saved yourself a car payment and hefty insurance premiums.
Now start paying off whatever debt you have left, if any. such as credit cards blah blah.. get that off of you.
Living cheaper than before.
Now you have the uncanny ability to start cramming cash into a savings account. Cram cram cram.. work extra hours, get so much comission your bosses get nervous when handing you your paycheck.
If you cant pay cash for it, you dont deserve it.
BMW stock?
we pay 1.6k in rent and i divide that by 3 because my mom wife and i live together [their idea and my mom is the coolest.] so my part is $533+ a third of all the utilitiesRent on a 450k house has got to be killing you. If you want to break free of this crap you need to rent a super cheap place. Dont move into the ghetto, but get out of that 450k house. Get the altima as presentable as you can and sell it. Tell your mom to buy her own car. Sell the montero. Keep the 99 honda and leave it alone, it'll last forever.
i dont have much dept just a personal loan that my wife and i split the $181 dues.. and no credit cards.Buy another decent honda. If you need a small SUV, get a CRV or something. Quit treating the K series as a "NEED" you dont need it. you WANT it. this need thing is going to cost you thousands of dollars. DO NOT go buy a new car, or a $15k car for that matter. Scrape together whatever cash you can. Look at that amount and find a car that you can pay cash for. no payments. take liability on it. You've just saved yourself a car payment and hefty insurance premiums. Now start paying off whatever debt you have left, if any. such as credit cards blah blah.. get that off of you.
that my reasoning for a newer carAlso, I'd recommend waiting until the housing market bottoms out before buying. It's a buyer's market right now and it's only going to get better...for buyers. Something else to consider is that when you rent, your landlord takes care of everything or is financially liable for repairs. When you own, you take care of everything and are financially liable for repairs. If you want maximum value, buy a house that needs work. Spend a month or two and few grand fixing the house to save yourself tens of thousands on the buy price. Plus, as an added bonus, you get to customize your house to the way you want it and it's a great bonding experience for a couple...cheesy as that last part sounds.
lol thanksHe uh, meant Wall Street stock for BMW.
And they aren't much more than a Honda if you can do the work yourself. If you can't, they're expensive to own.
Again trigger happy, that's normal.i'm getting owned in the market right now. if i dumped 55k into it, i'd probably be hanging myself right now.
not for everything just the rent. she's never had a place of her own and i want her to have an understanding of what bills are.... [she's my queen anything she wants she gets as long as i can afford it]Quote:
Originally Posted by formby
we pay 1.6k in rent and i divide that by 3 because my mom wife and i live together [their idea and my mom is the coolest.] so my part is $533+ a third of all the utilities
That's silly. Why do you and your wife look at it as seperate expenditures? What's yours is hers and what's hers is yours. That's an important mindset.
good pointQuote: blanco
I have an easier, faster, and significantly less expensive way. Get a credit card, buy something small and pay the balance off immediately. Do that a few times and keep a $0.00 balance and you'll be on your way to great credit in no time. You can also open up a finance account at a jewelry store and buy small $100 items. Many other stores have in-house finance options like this. Hell, buy your lower priced car with a loan from your bank and consistantly make higher payments and pay the 3-5 year loan off in a year.