If you want her to have a true understanding of what bills are, make her sit down with you while you pay them. Sit down with her and show her an account print-out to put her spending habbits right in front of her. Calmly explain how this is effecting your financial situation as a couple. I tried making my woman be financially responsible by making her pay bills, it failed after years. This method worked when I did it once.
Thank you.
I think doing that would be a significant mistake at this point. I know you really want something nice, but be patient and I guarantee your patience will be rewarded if you stay financially diligent. The only way to get ahead is to stop living to the edge of your means. With the "edge of your means" mindset, it doesn't matter how much money you make because you'll still always be broke. Why, you ask? You still buy all the same things, you just spend more money on them. Instead of buying the $20 shirt, you buy the $80 shirt and so on. I know people who literally make six figures, own their homes, have
a lot of nice stuff, take tri-annual vacations, and still have to live paycheck to paycheck. It's ridiculous to make that much money but have to seriously budget and sacrifice to buy a $1700 P.A. system...real example from one of my friends.
What you do with your money is entirely your choice and doesn't effect me one way or another. Just giving you food for thought.