hmmm..

[E_SolSi]

interesting choice of words, but true non the less

i dont tend to sugar coat much

i find that if sugar coated the message is usually lost

 

[get_nick]

if E didn't make it clear enough, you aren't listening. if you aren't going to listen, don't post again.

guys hate giving advice and having nobody listen.

ditch the douche. doubt you will, odds are you'll go back. i can feel it in your words. good luck.

EDIT: if your mom hates him, so should you. moms are always right.

 

[TurboMirage]

Eric... the guy who gives you reality. thats why he's good to keep around!

 

[E_SolSi]

im here to help
some people listen... some people dont... but none of them can claim i didnt make it clear enough for them

 

[TurboMirage]

agreed!

 

[ScrapinSi]

down by the Wawa


fuck if i know

lol... which wawa? The one on 17 right up the road from geico (Exit 133)? Or the one at Central Park (Exit 130)?

And yeah... He's a scumbag.

 

[E_SolSi]

fuck all that
he is a shit bag and will always be a shit bag
he will tell you whatever the fuck he has to to get you back
and guess what????
shit will go right back to the way it was
and this process will repeat itself over and over and over
untill you are so broken and beaten down that you dont think you are worth anything any more
then he owns you
he can and will treat you like shit because you will be so conditioned to think that that is how you should be treated
after all he only treats you that way because he loves you so much

hes a piece of shit
you are better off without him
tell him to fuck off
tell his friends to fuck off
he should be dead to you by this point
im talking dont even act like you recognize him if you happen to see him out somewhere

he will find some other dumb girl that is willing to put up with his shit
and he'll probly end up knocking her up
he'll beat the hell out of her treat her like shit and mistreat the kid
she'll cry and say she doesnt deserve to be treated this way
he'll say some bullshit to make it all better for a day or two
they will grow old and miserable together doing a shit job of raising the kid who:
if female, will grow up to be in porno getting jack hammered in the doo doo hole by the entire line up of the 1985 superbowl winning Chicago Bears
if male, will grow up in and out of juvy for boosting cars and selling smack untill he like his father ends up overdosing on a dirty bag of heroin or meth, or ends up getting shanked during one of his many stints in the slammer


youre better off without the shit bag
leave while you have the chance... or it could be your daughter getting jack hammered in the doo doo hole on film

 

[nootrac22]

where's the fridge?

 

[E_SolSi]

#72
he looks small in that pic though

 

[nootrac22]

gives new meaning to the superbowl suffle

 

[E_SolSi]

indeed

 

[Eros2180]

if E didn't make it clear enough, you aren't listening. if you aren't going to listen, don't post again.

guys hate giving advice and having nobody listen.

ditch the douche. doubt you will, odds are you'll go back. i can feel it in your words. good luck.

EDIT: if your mom hates him, so should you. moms are always right.

I 2nd that

 

[Black Widow g2]

sorry its been so long since i posted back!I have been in the hospital my throat almost closed on me. Now that I have called it quits he's trying to be so nice and giving me everything that I want. He keeps tellng me that he loves me and I have done told him that if it happens your not going to treat me like you did. I can't take that i'm already weak from not eating for 4 days thanks to being ill. I took a bath and almost passed out. I love him and everything but i can't take being treated like I was. His friends have told me that he's so depressed that he won't do anything and he tells me that he can't stop thinking about me. I don't know what to do. My mom hates him but I love him. I mean I gave everything to him. My heart, my soul, and hell even my virginity. I don't know what else to i mean i have no one else to talk to.

At least you won't regret who you gave your virginity to, but still... think of yourself. It's lame of him to only come around and be nice when you're down. A good man is the one who will be there when you're down and be there to be happy for you when you're happy. I went through this with the current boyfriend. Even after going through a divorce and crying almost every day about how I wanted my life back, all he wanted to do was make me happy. He understood how I felt (God knows why) and just wanted to help me through it. Of course he was hoping I wouldn't go back to that life and I'm glad I didn't, but I feel lucky that someone would have actually put up with all that and I do what I can to make sure he knows he's appreciated.

Once again, you're young and you'll have a lot of time to realize this, I just hope you don't allow yourself to let him do it to you again, becuase here's the cardinal rule I've learned: If you DO allow him to treat you like that, he will. By letting him back in, you've let him know that you'll KEEP giving him second chances and he'll see how far he can play that card. What's sad is women are no different in this rite. Good luck to you hun, and I hope you feel better soon. If you want to talk, I'm around.

 

[get_nick]

It's lame of him to only come around and be nice when you're down

i think you mean when she's "up".

my ex went through the same thing. it took her the second time he bailed to realize that he did it because he didn't care enough about her. if he really loves you, he'll be around good and bad and help you through it.

 

[TurboMirage]

i took sabrina back FOUR times after all the shit she pulled. /wrists

 

[E_SolSi]

i think you mean when she's "up".

no she is correct
she is currently "down"
she is sick
she is depressed and confused by the whole breakup in general

he is acting like a typical predator right now
he sees that she is in a weakened state and is attacking

whats more attractive to a hyena, a healthy strong gazelle, or an old gazelle with a bum leg that cant get away?
exactly...

if she was currently "up"
happy, healthy, having a good time, enjoying life...
he wouldnt be able to control her and treat her like shit... if she was "up" she wouldnt allow that to happen and she would tell him to fuck off pretty quickly
therefore he would have to try to bring her "down"
being by her side when she is sick, looking like the good guy, looking like the hero, etc, is all done for one reason.... to make her dependent on him.... why??? so that she is an easier victim... its a hell of a lot easier to control someone when they think that they need you
if he can not manage to bring her "down"
he will go elsewhere looking for an easier target

 

[get_nick]

i thought she was saying that he only wants to be with her in the good times, but not when she is sick or unhappy.

you are right, he's praying on an easy target. she needs to be strong and kick him to the curb. she wont even think about him in 6 months if she kicks him to the curb now.

 

[E_SolSi]

my ex went through the same thing. it took her the second time he bailed to realize that he did it because he didn't care enough about her. if he really loves you, he'll be around good and bad and help you through it.

thats a bit of a different
if someone is only there when things are good and fun, and runs when things get bad, it generally means that they do not take the relationship serious at all and have no long term plans for it
they are only there for fun and when it stops being fun for whatever reason or becomes too serious they will leave

think of this situation like the chick you meet at the bar and end up hooking up with... not a real relationship though... more like sport fucking... then all the sudden she starts getting too clingy or she starts being too demanding of your time... you were never interested in a relationship so you end up simply walking away

its not the same as predator behavior where you are trying to get the other person dependent on you... in fact its almost opposite

still a dick move if it was not made clear from the get go that this was nothing to be taken seriously... we all know the guys who are out sport fucking girls but try to make the girl think its more than it really is... thats a serious dick move... if its just sex, make sure both people know and accept that before moving forward

 

[E_SolSi]

i thought she was saying that he only wants to be with her in the good times, but not when she is sick or unhappy.

you are right, he's praying on an easy target. she needs to be strong and kick him to the curb. she wont even think about him in 6 months if she kicks him to the curb now.

bingo

 

[boostedf22]

fuck all that
he is a shit bag and will always be a shit bag
he will tell you whatever the fuck he has to to get you back
and guess what????
shit will go right back to the way it was
and this process will repeat itself over and over and over
untill you are so broken and beaten down that you dont think you are worth anything any more
then he owns you
he can and will treat you like shit because you will be so conditioned to think that that is how you should be treated
after all he only treats you that way because he loves you so much

hes a piece of shit
you are better off without him
tell him to fuck off
tell his friends to fuck off
he should be dead to you by this point
im talking dont even act like you recognize him if you happen to see him out somewhere

he will find some other dumb girl that is willing to put up with his shit
and he'll probly end up knocking her up
he'll beat the hell out of her treat her like shit and mistreat the kid
she'll cry and say she doesnt deserve to be treated this way
he'll say some bullshit to make it all better for a day or two
they will grow old and miserable together doing a shit job of raising the kid who:
if female, will grow up to be in porno getting jack hammered in the doo doo hole by the entire line up of the 1985 superbowl winning Chicago Bears
if male, will grow up in and out of juvy for boosting cars and selling smack untill he like his father ends up overdosing on a dirty bag of heroin or meth, or ends up getting shanked during one of his many stints in the slammer


youre better off without the shit bag
leave while you have the chance... or it could be your daughter getting jack hammered in the doo doo hole on film

GOD DAMN THAT IS SOOO TRUE... Couldnt explain reality better than that...

All and all she will get back with him !!! Teenage love for the person that took there virginity , is the worst love of all !!

Puppy love FTL !!!

I say go find another guy !!

Either way I am not effected by it , I told you I would help you get your car fixed !!!!!!! But yet you still want him to finish it ???