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[Black Widow g2]

No way. My first love and I are still good friends, actually. We had a mutual decision to break up and we even have a boy who just turned 9 years old this past weekend. It all depends on how you grow. Since there's nothing more than the virginity going on (not kids like I had) then it will be even easier to get over.

But, if she doesn't want to listen, like most teenagers, then she will learn on her own that she made a mistake. Sometimes, that's the best way. Shit, I did it a buncha times. But, I'm looking out for her emotions in the future. I know how she feels. She feels there really ISN'T a future without him. But, the truth is, life will go on with or without him. I left my husband because I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life as miserable as I was in the relationship, never mind being OUT of it. Of course I was depressed and I wonder why I was so broken up over it considering I felt like I was treated like shit. Hmm. All I can do is wish her the best of luck and offer my advice if she wants it... even if it's not what she wants to hear.

I just hope she'll understand that I really DO know what it feels like. But, I know she most likely will follow her broken heart back into her comfort zone. I suggest going to lunch with Mom and having a serious talk with her about how you feel and actually LISTEN to what she has to say. Yes, she doesn't like your ex because he hurt you. Wouldn't you feel the same if your daughter had been in the same situation? I know it's hard when you're 19... but put yourself in her shoes for a moment or 20. Hell, even I didn't really get it until I was 25... but Mom usually IS right.

 

[LSacuragirl90]

well i have decided that i'm going to stay single and just hang out because it feels good not to be tied down. I can do what I want. As for the ex boyfriend we're still close but he knows that I don't want to be in a relationship right now.

 

[get_nick]

well i have decided that i'm going to stay single and just hang out because it feels good not to be tied down. I can do what I want. As for the ex boyfriend we're still close but he knows that I don't want to be in a relationship right now.

well, here is the word of advice for the day. don't sleep with him again if you aren't going to be together.

let me know if i need to explain why.

 

[boostedf22]

well i have decided that i'm going to stay single and just hang out because it feels good not to be tied down. I can do what I want. As for the ex boyfriend we're still close but he knows that I don't want to be in a relationship right now.

Well I am glad your moving on, youll get happier by the day. A little freedom never hurt anyone, just being able to do what you want without questions or answers does the body some good.

 

[E_SolSi]

well i have decided that i'm going to stay single and just hang out because it feels good not to be tied down. I can do what I want. As for the ex boyfriend we're still close but he knows that I don't want to be in a relationship right now.

congrats
good choice

well, here is the word of advice for the day. don't sleep with him again if you aren't going to be together.

let me know if i need to explain why.

heres a phrase you should drill into your vocabulary right now

"what does fucking me one last time have to do with your need for closure?"

im serious... drill that line into your head to the point that it becomes a conditioned response

he is still close with you because he thinks he will be able to fuck you with no strings attached

 

[TurboMirage]

I like that

 

[nootrac22]

since the boyfriend didn't work last time, maybe this time you should try a girlfriend

 

[LSacuragirl90]

since the boyfriend didn't work last time, maybe this time you should try a girlfriend

I don't think so.

 

[humblegumbo]

Now that I have called it quits he's trying to be so nice and giving me everything that I want. He keeps tellng me that he loves me and I have done told him that if it happens your not going to treat me like you did.

Just my $0.02 worth...but if he loved you he'd be nice and trying to give you everything you wanted while you were together.

Honestly, dude probably doesn't realize what he's doing. He's probably not a controlling shitbag because he's a socio-pathic genuis plotting how to fuck you up. This is why he will seem so sincerely hurt and depressed when scorned. The best thing you can do is put as much distance between you & him as possible. He will be your friend, quietly waiting for that moment of weakness you may have so he can jump back in your panties...or your mind.

Also, what gives w/ this?
All FIGHTN4ME's Photos
The user you're trying to view has set all their photos to private.

You seem cute enough to not put up w/ some dude's shit. Good luck.

 

[LSacuragirl90]

well i like to keep my photos private you got to add me to see.

 

[Black Widow g2]

I can see you.

 

[humblegumbo]

well i like to keep my photos private...

Well, sure. Makes sense.

Like every other guy on the planet, I enjoy looking at attractive females. So, I think I speak for the entire male race when I say...

Also, and I could be very mistaken here, I always thought that women liked hearing that they were attractive. Especially when recently dumped, generally unloved, or insecure.

 

[Black Widow g2]

why do you think I posted n00ds? lol ok seriously... Tiffany... I hope things get better for you, hun.

 

[TurboMirage]

i saw. i added her to myspace lol

 

[LSacuragirl90]

he said that he is going to create a myspace to look at me. He's like a stalker lol.

 

[reckedracing]

someone on myspace bring the pics y0

 

[LSacuragirl90]

he got all of those pics from google. That's creepy.

 

[E_SolSi]

fuck all that
he is a shit bag and will always be a shit bag
he will tell you whatever the fuck he has to to get you back
and guess what????
shit will go right back to the way it was
and this process will repeat itself over and over and over
untill you are so broken and beaten down that you dont think you are worth anything any more
then he owns you
he can and will treat you like shit because you will be so conditioned to think that that is how you should be treated
after all he only treats you that way because he loves you so much

hes a piece of shit
you are better off without him
tell him to fuck off
tell his friends to fuck off
he should be dead to you by this point
im talking dont even act like you recognize him if you happen to see him out somewhere

he will find some other dumb girl that is willing to put up with his shit
and he'll probly end up knocking her up
he'll beat the hell out of her treat her like shit and mistreat the kid
she'll cry and say she doesnt deserve to be treated this way
he'll say some bullshit to make it all better for a day or two
they will grow old and miserable together doing a shit job of raising the kid who:
if female, will grow up to be in porno getting jack hammered in the doo doo hole by the entire line up of the 1985 superbowl winning Chicago Bears
if male, will grow up in and out of juvy for boosting cars and selling smack untill he like his father ends up overdosing on a dirty bag of heroin or meth, or ends up getting shanked during one of his many stints in the slammer


youre better off without the shit bag
leave while you have the chance... or it could be your daughter getting jack hammered in the doo doo hole on film

well were on to page 3 now
so i figured id make sure that this is posted at least once on every page in this thread

just want to remind you whats at stake here

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[LSacuragirl90]

well were on to page 3 now
so i figured id make sure that this is posted at least once on every page in this thread

just want to remind you whats at stake here

ed

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+

by the

Thats gross.

 

[TurboMirage]

*dead*