jon,
I'm sorry to hear that some chik is puting you through this type of shit. All I can say is that a girl can have all the bad habits in the world and she is worth keeping around if she makes you happy and cares about you. But from what I hear she cares absolutely nothing about you or she would answer when you call and she wouldn't blow you off at the bar.
I think that you should just go to her house and tell her to her face that she can head over to vikings training camp and get gang banged by all the linemen for all you care.
then you should get an engine into your civic so you can drive it again instead of your mom's beater and take this new girl out and show her a good time. I might be a bit biased on the part of getting putting a working engine into your car but at anyrate it's not worth spending one more moment of your time thinking about this girl you probably should have dropped a while ago.
but I'm the same way, I'm a big sucker for girls and have been walked over many times. but my current GF is the bomb and I haven't been happier in my life. not to rub it in, but as cheesy as it sounds there will be someone out there like that for you as well
just my 2 pennies
sean
sorry about not getting your call today, I was on the phone with my girlfriend and screwed up when I tried to switch to the other line
give me a call sometime tomorrow (i'll be on my way home from SD) but I'll have my phone on