I don't know why people hate having their wife gf around, I don't understand that. Granted sometimes alone time is needed, but for the most part that is your mate, you should be with them, talk to them, etc all the time. I hate being alone without my gf, even after 2.5 years, I still want her to go with me unless I play basketball, but other than that, I just don't like being without her. Granted we fight and she sometimes gets on my nerves, and that is why I play basketball, sort of a getaway. But IMO, if you can't stand being with the one you are with, why are you together?