And it continues even further.
So I haven't talked to Erika in a few days and wondered why but wasn't going to push it or call her because I was trying to stay completely out of it, go to court and be done with it.
BUT NOOOOO.....
She calls me up today from a number I know. And old friend of all of ours in which we haven't spoke with in years. She just started talking to this chick again because she had no one else to really talk to and this used to be her best friend until, you guessed it, her boyfriend came along and broke up their friendship.
So I ask her what's up. She's at this chicks house now because HER parents broke up their 15 year relationship, I hope she's starting to realize this is affecting a lot more people then just her and her douche of a boyfriend and kids.
But why, I know you're dying to know. I'm sure the added stress of her living with her parents had something to do with it but nope, her stepfather is just as fucked up in the head as her boyfriend. He's supposedly in love with his stepdaughter, he's said it before but he was drunk out of his mind and completely incomprehensible. Not only that, he's pissed at ME, because the thinks I'm fucking his wife. I'll be honest and say me and her flirted with each other...all the time, but I really wasn't fucking my best friends 38 year old mother.
More, sure. Of course Erika is a little out there and I've stated why. But she still isn't realizing everyone has the same type of thoughts regarding her and her boyfriend's relationship as I do. She tried to let him have Thanksgiving with the kids, her not there but him with his parents/family and such with him. So first, she calls up the officer to see if the restraining order between him and the kids could be dropped, even for a few hours. She declines and tells her the only way to be able to do that is if she contacts the judge, explains what she wants and see if he'll agree to it.
So, she calls the judge, now do you think any judge in his right mind would let a violent girlfriend beater take his kids for Thanksgiving? Of course not, he even tells her his thoughts on the situation and that he's probably going to be putting her boyfriend in jail and there is no way he's going to rule in their favor. So she cries and tries to bullshit the judge a little, nope not happening. He tells her the only way possible for him to get the kids is for her boyfriend's lawyer to declare a motion. [sarcasm]Too bad it was too late and the judge wasn't going to accept phone calls after a certain time[/sarcasm]. Not only that, he told her, even if his lawyer does declare a motion, he wasn't going to let him get the kids.
I'm SURE there will be even more to this whole ordeal.....