CLIFFNOTES: Going down to Rowan Saturday for a friends going away party and have a feeling it's going to be a drama filled evening with a girl and a possible fight with some asshole. That last part is unrelated to the gut feeling and the story though.
So last night I get a random text from a girl I haven't seen or spoken to since about February. I had been talking to and hanging out with this girl since about October. Because of my job and her still being in college, hanging out was sporadic at best. Anyway, then she got a bf in December or January. Still talked, still hung out.
February I go down there one night to go out to the bar with friends. Bump into her and to make a long story short, we hooked up. Glad I found out she was a cheater without being cheated on myself and attempted to continue that situation.
Well about a week or two later she drops off the face of the earth. No response to my calls, texts, online messages, etc. Even deletes her Facebook account. My friends from down there haven't seen her around. I assume she felt bad for cheating on her bf and figured she would separate herself from me and my friends. Fine, I go about my life.
Then the random text last night. Just general bullshitting back and forth and then I ask why she stopped talking to me. Doesn't really answer the question but I find out she went through some bad shit she doesn't want to talk about. I may be being a narcissist and it may have nothing to do with me, but I just have that feeling in my gut.
I'm half expecting to go down there and she's got a beach ball under her dress with my name on it. I'll be down there on Saturday for an unrelated matter, but I'll probably hang out with her too. IDK, just wanted to see what you guys take from this and/or share your experiences.
So last night I get a random text from a girl I haven't seen or spoken to since about February. I had been talking to and hanging out with this girl since about October. Because of my job and her still being in college, hanging out was sporadic at best. Anyway, then she got a bf in December or January. Still talked, still hung out.
February I go down there one night to go out to the bar with friends. Bump into her and to make a long story short, we hooked up. Glad I found out she was a cheater without being cheated on myself and attempted to continue that situation.
Well about a week or two later she drops off the face of the earth. No response to my calls, texts, online messages, etc. Even deletes her Facebook account. My friends from down there haven't seen her around. I assume she felt bad for cheating on her bf and figured she would separate herself from me and my friends. Fine, I go about my life.
Then the random text last night. Just general bullshitting back and forth and then I ask why she stopped talking to me. Doesn't really answer the question but I find out she went through some bad shit she doesn't want to talk about. I may be being a narcissist and it may have nothing to do with me, but I just have that feeling in my gut.
I'm half expecting to go down there and she's got a beach ball under her dress with my name on it. I'll be down there on Saturday for an unrelated matter, but I'll probably hang out with her too. IDK, just wanted to see what you guys take from this and/or share your experiences.
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