So I'm assuming you've got the F20B transmission as well as the motor then? Sorry for the dumb question, just clarifying. It's still not gonna be super fast, but at least it will be better than using the slushbox from the old motor.
And about your girl, does she have super mega ADD or what, lol?? Wow, I just can't believe it's that bad as to where she can't learn how to drive a stick. The initial learning is the tough part; after you've got some practice it becomes second nature.
Anyways, I've never dealt with anything like this, so I'm gonna check out of this thread. Good luck getting it to work, and I'll be sure to stay away from JDM Customs.