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Originally posted by JDMilan@Nov 12 2003, 11:45 AM
I am nice, but dont do the listed items that are typical.
i say no to people and i dont need to be around someone all the time. i do things i enjoy for my self... my problem is that i dont act like my self when i am around girls.... i get scaried and dont know what the say(when sobber) when i am tosted i am my self and more out going. i need to work on not caring when sobbver and have fun and be my self
Originally posted by Celerity@Nov 12 2003, 01:00 PM
Women don't like being smothered. Yeah, if you ask them that, that is the answer you will get. But in reality, when you don't smother them - within a few days you'll see them with another guy. So while you took your time and decided all kinds of "Give her space" and "Let's be friends first"... Some other chode has come in and given her what she REALLY wants.
Being alone may suck for lots of people. I would say almost 100% of the people out there hate being alone -
You see Women have this strange ability to pick and choose when they will be alone.
Men do not.
When a woman decides "Enough is enough.. I don't want to be single anymore" within that night they will have someone, And because of the lack of reasoning that person will be wrong for them.
This is why I say that you, as a man, have about 1 week to win the heart of a girl before she'll move on. And how can you do the "Friends first" or "Take our time" with odds like that ?
Women will have this 2 or so weeks off, then when they get depressed they will IMMEDIATELY find someone else and reset the "I've learned a lesson" clock. For women to truly build up a personality after being alone, they NEED to be single and go through these steps. Perhaps then they will begin to use reasoning and logic in their decision to dedicate their love to a "Nice Guy".
Lemme know if you need clarification on this, because since realising this, I've become happy again ! I no longer think "What is wrong with me?" or have any feelings of doubt about myself. I'm ok. It's my targets that are the problem.
Originally posted by Prowler@Nov 12 2003, 11:56 AM
check out 98teg's profile on aim. he has a link to something like that. it's a good read.
Everyone has a different personality, life experiences, tastes and levels of intelligence, not to mention the aspects of physical attraction.
I meet interesting people all of the time. Daytime hours are best for this and without alcohol present.
Make that 99% and me part of the 1%.
Spoken like a man. Yeah, any girl that practices good hygiene (or maybe not) can go out to a bar and get laid any time she wants. What guy would turn down free pussy? But that isn't getting quality companionship or love. In fact, if that's how she tries to choose her bf's, they will never truly respect her. Who wants to go out with a hoe?
Take someone like Reeves Calloway of Callaway Enterprises. If he were single, women would be hanging all over him. What would he have? He races cars, is intelligent and hardworking, happy because he is doing what he loves and has built up a successful and respected company.
So get youself together first guys and then worry about a quality longterm significant other. Btw, it's not about having the big bucks, but at least be able to buy a house at some point. If a girl is planning on having kids, well she needs to feel that you could be potential husband material.
Not true. It is possible to break out of the "friend zone"... but that would require changes on the part of the guy trapped there.
Also your cigarette smoking will turn off most women of quality
Steve, you're a bright guy. As I've told you many times before, the right girl for you won't be hanging out in a bar.
once you figure out where you're headed job-wise, things will just come together fine......Go take an evening course at Yale... and meet some female grad students.