Challenge: Close your eyes (Well.. you know after reading this). Imagine the kind of woman that would love me.
Wasn't that refreshing ? See ? There is no formula that works for everyone. Brian will find a girl who loves him for his "stability" and "Drive to make money" and "Unwillingness to take a step back for any reason", ad nauseum. They will date for an acceptable amount of time, he will buy her a 3 month salary diamond ring, They will get married, make babies and raise those babies to be stable, have drive to make money, and not be willing to take a step back for any reason.
I will find a girl who will contemplate every question asked for hours on end, accept not even an iota of conditions, speak the truth no matter how much it hurts me, and willingly toss aside all of our hard work for morality. I will put a quarter in a vending machine, put a ringpop on her finger, and we will make babies who speak the truth no matter how much it hurts, always defend morality regardless of cost, and not accept any conditions.
Or, all 4 of us will have teenagers that fucking hate us, and talk about killing us while getting high and fucking strangers on dope.
Because no matter what is built , it really doesn't matter. None of these quantifiable traits are quantifiable in the slightest - We are all just under an illusion. We're jerking off our minds, both having comme-ci comme-ca orgasms and chafing our brains at the same time.