And vice versa trust me I know, but my philosophy is that a woman is a woman and she's gonna do what she wants to when she wants, all women have the capability and the will to cheat at some point in their lives, and if she's with a guy and really wants to get at someone else she will, rule of thumb like my momma told me "don't trust em, you don't need them, I thought u how to cook, wash, clean, and iron, u only need a woman for one thing". I wish I had followed her advice earlier in life but I lived and I learned.
And burnout I'm probably the same as you