Alright you dont have to read if you dont want to, I just need to vent. Alright so I go out with my freinds sister for 2 months about 2 1/2 years ago. During that 2 1/2 years she was with this fucking asshole who is really controlling and treated her like shit. SO 8 months ago I start talking to her again and she made it completely clear to me that she doesnt want to be with him and all she wants to do is be with me because im like everything she wants in a guy. So she cheats on him for about 4 months because she is afraid of his reaction to her breaking up w/ him. But she finally breaks up with him, ask's her dad if she should date me and he said no. So in desperation of trying to do as her dad wishes she fucks me over and decides to date this other kid she knows, that lasted for a month. She didnt feel anything with him because she still wanted to be with me and all she thought about was me.After realizing that she could never make her dad happy she dumped the kid, and finally decided to be with me. EVERYTHING was going perfect for about a month and then her controlling ex starts calling her and they start hanging out. Well he is going into the service on march 16 so she wanted to spend allot of her time with him until he left, she said its because she still loves him and she misses spending time with him,but she still wanted to be with me. She had been going up to his dads house with him to visit with his family and all that for the past 3-4 weekends and spending time with him here in town too. So friction started to happen with her and I because she was doing all that,She still swore up and down she wanted to stay with me though. She said she is worried that if she isnt with him he will never write her beacuse "thats the way he is"and she's worried he'll die. And he only decided to go to the army because they broke up and he knew it would piss her off,becuase she told him she never wanted him to go in.I ended up asking her a few times who she wanted to be with, me or him and she would chose him. Then she would change her mind and everything would be fine for a bit , she promised everything would be fine after he left and that she loves me. So after a couple weeks of that roller coaster shit, really not being able to decide who to be with and getting frustrated that me and him were "fighting" over her, she just snaps and says she's not going to see either of us. She said she would not get back with him. A day and a half after she said that, she just basically says fuck you and gets back with him. So she's going to have a relationship with a complete asshole who treats her bad, and basically never get to see him since he's leaving for the army, over a relationship with a guy who deeply loves her and treats her right, who she would also get to see everyday. This girl is a fucking 17 year old headcase, she goes to a shrink and she freaks out over everything. I care'd' allot about her and she cared allot about me, we were planning on getting engaged, do you think she is just doing all of this out of guilt of him going away? Sorry for the long post, Im over her now but it just pisses me off the way it happend.