I kind of want a girls view of how a girl would react, but any and all comments are welcome. This may get a little long. So this chick Meg is a sorority sister of my ex gf. On top of that, she is also her "pseudo big sister"(when an original big sister sucks, they assign the girl a new/second one). We never really liked each other because she comes off as kind of snotty and she only heard the bad stories about me. Well we both graduated on Friday but the whole week before was "Senior Week". Pretty much only seniors around, doing the activities the school set up. Well the graduating seniors from my fraternity, another fraternity, and this sorority hung out during most of the events and every night there after. We talked civilly for the first night or so but in doing so, realized we have a lot in common. Both the second oldest of 4, all the way to our personalities are near mirror images(it would have been gay but I could have said jinx like 40 times to random comments made all week). So basically on Tuesday/Wednesday we were just being extremely friendly to last night us falling asleep on a couch together talking and tonight walking out of Friday's with all our friends with my arm around her and her's around me. I've always found her attractive and obviously that was amplified by actually getting to know her. But before I do anything rash I needed to know if the feeling was mutual. Just dumb little tests. Sit down first at Friday's or on the shuttles all week, she sits right next to me or close by the majority of the time. "Disappearing" throughout the week, only to receive a text and return with a smile. She's the one texting me to come hang out with the group (I have known some of these guys for almost 4 years now and hang out with them daily). We were both on the fence about staying at Rowan tonight (I wasn't really, I needed to be home for something tomm). All day she is unsure, I'm unsure. I make my mind up, she shortly followed. And lastly, I was approached by members of all three organizations asking what the deal was with us being so buddy-buddy. I don't want it to sound as if she follows me around or is caught up on me and vice versa, but just pointing out some things other people and I have noticed. I have not made a move simply because I am in uncharted waters. When I break up with a girl, friends are off-limits. The arm around her tonight was really the extent of our contact, both public and private. I just also want to point out that while being pseudo big and little, her and my ex do not see eye to eye. The ex lives at the bar and gets wasted, Meg likes to have a few beers with friends. The ex is a whore, I know of one guy Meg has kissed randomly at school (My ex did more than that while I was with her). The ex has no problem going off the deep end and making a fool of herself, Meg is very collected. A Bruce Banner like myself(it takes A LOT to get us there and then you regret getting us there). So what should I do/would you do? We both don't plan on spending much time back at Rowan so I don't think it would be an issue, but I'm just looking for opinions.