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  1. LS_VTEC

    LS_VTEC you get the BRAKE

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    So last night I had a few friends over. A little drinking going on and what not. A couple people leave, and my boy is spilling his guts out about how he hates his job. So my gf comes out and says to me "you have to swear not to say anything if I tell you"... so... I say okaye thinking it would be nothing major. She tells me that her boss (who I used to work for part time) was touching her at work. Touching her ass and grabbing it. She told him no and he stopped for a week. Then he did it while I was there but I was not looking. She was afraid of what I would do if I found out what he did so she tried to keep it quiet hoping he would just stop. I have a bad temper and a history of aggrv. assault charges from years ago so she doesn't want to see me go to jail over this piece of shit white trash. So I call this motherfucker and this is what went down....


    Boss: Hello
    Me: You got somethin to tell me?
    Boss: No why whats up?
    Me: DO YOU HAVE SOMETHING..TO TELL ME??
    Boss: No, why whats going on?
    Me: I know what you been doing motherfucker dont you lie to me
    Boss: What are you talking about???
    Me: You touching my girls ass while she is working
    Me: No means no motherfucker and your lucky the cops showed up or else you would be in the CCU fighting for your life
    Boss: Thats crazy I didnt do anything to her, I grazed her ass once that was it
    Me: This is whats going to happen; she is not working for you anymore and you lose our numbers. If you so much as call here ill crack your peanut fuckin head. Your god damn lucky the police showed up at my house due to the a neighbor hearing me screaming and now I can't do shit
    Boss: The police are coming here now??
    Me: No you stunad'...you should know me better than that...
    Me: If I see you on the street im gonna beat the mother-fucking-shit-out-of-you.
    Me: *hangs up*

    A neighbor of mine called the police and reported a domestic dispute because of the noise. When the police knocked at the door, they overheard me saying 'im gonna kill this motherfucker' so they ask me "who are you going to kill?". My girlfriend tells them who and now IM BEAT because if this guy gets so much as a scratch on his ass im getting the visit for it. I planned on whoopin' hiss ass this morning but as I passed by there were two police cars in both lots surrounding his store. So I called him from when I got to work.

    This is bullshit. Not like it was in the old days. Now I have to wait until things cool off so I fall under the radar before I can make a move. There is no way he is getting off this easy. Pressing charges will be a waste of time. I'll deal with this fruit in the near future when the time is right.
     
  2. AHHVTEC

    AHHVTEC Well-Known Member VIP

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    well he is admitting his guilt just by saying he grazed her ass. he grabbed it
     
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    seriously, grow up.

    a fight won't get you shit but busted knuckles.

    but, since you lost your temper, you pretty much through out your court case.... of which you could have easily taken them for a good chuck of change, especially since it is a management figure.
     
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    tunercrazed HS Official Hippie

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    you know you can hire people for jobs like this....i am in need of extra cash =x
     
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    AHHVTEC Well-Known Member VIP

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    and not only that saying to someone your gona kill them is the same as beating them up its the same charge
     
  6. LS_VTEC

    LS_VTEC you get the BRAKE

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    B...with all due respect... you do not comprehend the situation at hand here. He put his hands down her pants when her back was turned and would not let her walk away when she kept saying stop. I guess it boils down to how you were raised. I didn't beat his ass like I would have loved to because of the heat that got drawn toward me last night. I have too much on my plate to risk going to jail. I know what I have to do and when the time is right it will happen. Doesn't mean im gonna beat his ass, because im not going to. It's good to know people who know people.
     
  7. LS_VTEC

    LS_VTEC you get the BRAKE

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    Not quite.

    Simple assault
    Aggrv. assault
    verbal threats

    all different charges.
     
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    AHHVTEC Well-Known Member VIP

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    hell i would beat his ass
     
  9. LS_VTEC

    LS_VTEC you get the BRAKE

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    I don't look for trouble, it seems to find its way to me like a god damn test of my self control. I grew up a lot different from most of the people on here. My roots are my roots plain and simple. I let it go, he gets a free ride? Maybe you, not me.
     
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    well, you didn't say he had his hand IN her pants.

    i was assuming from your post a 'good game' type slap on the ass
     
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    tunercrazed HS Official Hippie

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    Hire a cheap whore with std's to have sex with him, kill him slowly :D
     
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    LS_VTEC you get the BRAKE

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    If that was the case it would be different, but its not. He squeezed it on multiple occassions and she says "wtf dont do that". He stopped for about a week, than started up again. If this was 4 years ago he wouldn't be breathing right now. I'm a different person now. I have goals in life and going to jail will ruin them for me. Too much on my plate to throw it away over one POS.
     
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    i still think the best action is for your g/f to file charges officially against him
    Sexual Harassment
     
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    LS_VTEC you get the BRAKE

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    Not enough to go on. No witnesses. Its her word against his and not for nothin, in todays society, a nobody will not win. I'll take care of it when the time is right, my way.
     
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    well he told you that he grazed her ass
     
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    did you read the stats?

    thats a 93% resolve rate.
    and an average settlement of $4300 bucks.

    surely she can get one person in the office to sign an affidavit stating the event occurred.
     
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    i would get a dirty scank thats infected but hot, have her apply for the job, and let him harrass her, then he gets the hiv.
     
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    LS_VTEC you get the BRAKE

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    That doesn't matter. He told me. He can say otherwise to the police.
     
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    AHHVTEC Well-Known Member VIP

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    but still thats 2 people, not hear say,,and i know the laws are different in every state but in alabama if you say your going to kill someone thats the same charge as assault..
     
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    'i'm going to kill you' is actually attempted murder in some places
     
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