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Have you asked her why she tells you one thing and then does another. It could be that she is hiding something or it could me that she is just flakey when it comes to plans.
she says "i dont know"Have you asked her why she tells you one thing and then does another.
As it stands, from the short little blurb you described, she doesn't seem to want to change or even view the situation as a problem.
I think you're overreacting... but perhaps you need to have a chat with her about how you feel?
Question her and then when she gives an answer, listen...really listen, and then ask another question that takes the evaluation deeper and deeper until you've uncovered exactly what the problem is - this may take days or months.
ive done that but she just sits there like a wall
she doesnt have any, just co-workers, family.... and maybe ones i dont know aboutCan you ask her friends what they think or how they think she would respond best?
she doesnt have any, just co-workers, family.... and maybe ones i dont know about
and? Why does it always seem like someone should be the way YOU think they should be. He's not trying to change his wife, just asking for her to speak up when spoken to. Period. You over analyze things sometimes...... then you're Co-Dependent.
there's your answer ace. i had problems with my ex because of this. girls might say they dont' want other friends, but they do. you need to find another guy that has a gf she can hang out with. she doesn't talk to you because she wants at least 1 female friend. i know, i know, some girls don't like having other girls as friends, but deep down inside they need at least 1. guys just don't do 100% of the satisfaction a female needs. no matter what they say or we think.she doesnt have any, just co-workers, family.... and maybe ones i dont know about
are you fucking your roommate though?I was thinkin about this last night... and then I realized your wife is exactly like my roommate.
"hey matt could you do the dishes, all they need to have done is loaded in the dishwasher"
"yeah I can handle that"
Three days later they still aren't done.
CONSTANTLY.