I knew you would all foam at the mouth about this, but please don't make it a personal Celerity attack. Like I said, I was on your side until just a few weeks ago when I learned about it.
Alittle of my background: I'm an I.T. engineer with a mostly financial background. End. Here is the REAL meat of my argument:
My step mother is a real estate lawyer with 8 years behind her. That means she passed the Bar, and has a practice in CT that deals only with real estate law and it's methods. She's been walking me through some houses since 1999 - And everytime I get closer to closing, another wall gets thrown up and I give up. I've been through this 4 times now. And NO ONE is out there to help you. I swear, not even SHE prepared me for this shit. Real Estate people and mortgage brokers do NOTHING but lie, and then tell you up and down that they never lied. They act all surprised when I get so angry I nearly destroy their offices - "Oh, we didn't know that!" they'll say, and then try to calm me into the purchase. Fuck that, they knew. So this time, while working with a mortgage broker that I trust (I trust him as far as I can trust a rabid doberman) and her, we went through a mock closing. What I found made me want to give up and live in a tent in Wyoming for the rest of my life. But everyone that buys a house, goes through this.
"Fixed rate" takes one rate and manages to fixes it to a number that the bank is guaranteed profit. There are many rates in play here. NO ONE will tell you this up front, except YOUR retained and bound Lawyer. You need to hire a lawyer have them explain it. Then, get a second opinion. Then a third. I had to to get to this point.
Now, NONE of this was brought up to me at any stage in my closing for a house. And everyone's promise "We can get you into a modest house for what you are paying in rent" turned into "Twice, maybe 3 times your rent" pretty goddam quick. I simply can't own a box in a field for less than I pay in rent. So I'm not going to. The lawyer backed up my math without exception.
All I can do, really, is end this argument until you .. YOU ... go out and get to the closing tables. And when you do, remember that Cel told you so.
Binces.
-S