ok my first problem that ive been havin for a while is that my transmission grinds goin hard into third even with the clutch all the way down. i had this problem before while it was still undr warranty and honda fixed. they said it was the third gear synchros. ok so now after the warranty is long gone it started doin it again. i put in a short shifter (which has nothing to do with the problem) so i know if i take it back to honda theyll charge me my scrotum. any suggestions? also, lately my car randomly decided not to start. its not the battery or the alternator because i checked em both out, so i think its either the starter itself or possibly the relay? i have power when it wont start and theres no clicking when i try to turn it over, if i jumpstart it, it will usually start. ive taken it to a shop twice but of course they couldnt get it not to start so they couldnt figure it out. do starters normally go bad at around 65k miles?