What do you do when you say, "I have no money" and they say, "I just want to tell you something...*leans in* I like your hair"
or when you're standing 2 feet back from the bar and all your friends are infront of you and she eye fucks you and then says, "whats your name? you're cute?"
I probably got aids from talking to them, buit yeah, they were actually good looking and it was my second time at a strip joint.
it means absolutely nothing... just because you said "i dont have any money" or "im not interested" or "id rather jerkoff with a brillo pad" doesnt mean they still dont think they have a chance of working some money out of you... it means that you will be a bit more of a challenge to get the money out of... and many of them enjoy the sport... much like you going out to the bar and being more interested in the girl thats not whoring herself all over you... the whore hanging all over you is not a challenge and therefore is not much fun or sport
the one stripper was legimately into me. i was away from the bar, no money in hand, and she circumvented 5 of my friends to ask my name and tell me i was cute.
no she wasnt
if she was she would have tried to set something up so she could see you outside of work
standing away from the bar means nothing... a lot of places frown on girls taking people away from the stage, and prefer that they hit the people who are standing/sitting off to the sides not otherwise spending money
not holding money in your hand means nothing... come to think of it i cant ever remember being at a strip club and holding money in my hand... or seeing any one else do it... you would look really fucking odd, really fucking desperate, and really fucking out of place standing around in a strip club with a stack of bills clenched in your fist
until its being passed for payment, money is generally kept in the pocket unless its a dollar bill(s) sitting in front of you on the stage while you wait for the girl to make her way over and dance for you
There job isn't to give 1 guy the fuck me eye and blow off 5 other guys to talk to you. I was standing with a beer in hand, no cash.
yes.... actually it is
she figured you for her best chance of getting money or more money than she would get from the rest of the group you were with
meaning either A. you look like you have more money than your friends... or B. you look like the kind of guy she could sucker into a 5 song lap dance
it doesnt matter if a stripper is hitting on you or flirting with you or stroking your cock in the lap dance room while telling you how much she wants you... if shes not making efforts to see you outside of work, then all she is doing is making efforts to get more money out of you
She was serious, atleast the one that told me I was cute. The other one was probably just a poor line that she uses for young guys.
no... she wasnt
and they were both lines
if the stripper doesnt say something to complement you/flirt with you... you're cute, i like your hair, i like your eyes, you smell good, nice tattoos, nice glasses, nice cock, etc... shes either not doing her job or shes new and has no fucking idea what shes doing... or she thinks that your a complete fucking tool and just wants to get/stay the fuck away from you
ive watched strippers sit on a 300lb 60+ year old guys lap for 20 minutes talking with him, giggling and bouncing on his lap, rubbing his male pattern balding head, smiling and kissing his cheek... just working the hell out of him... now the guy doesnt look like hes got tons of money... he doesnt even look like hes showered or changed clothes in a few days... the girls know that if they go over and fuck with him for a little while they will get money out of him a lot of money... and if they are convincing enough hes probably coming back with more money to spend on them next time (ive seen friends of mine get worked over in a similar way)
i know all about the games strippers will play and what they look for in a "mark"
i have several female friends who are/were strippers
ive dated 2 strippers..... one that i met completely outside of her work and found out that she was a stripper after we were talking for a little while, and one that i met at the strip club that approached me and asked if i wanted to join her for breakfast after she got out of work
Also, I couldn't date a stripper and I would be too afraid of catching something to allow myself to fool around with a stripper.
then what fucking difference does it make???