well, he does already have a box where he keeps certain substances that shall remain nameless.
you are right, B. But, having said that, her being around my son is concerning. Do I set up a 'date' for all four of us to get together and talk so I can see what she's like? Dave has already met Artie. He doesn't like him, but I can see why. He doesn't bring it up, but then again, he's not an ex of mine so he hasn't heard about all his faults or shortcomings. I just don't know how to handle the situation. Reality here is I have 2 people to talk to. One is at work and if I told him about how I feel and how it's causing me a heart attack he'll probably end up in the hospital with a panic attack, stressing out his already malformed heart. The other is my mother/father (yes, they're like one person) but my father is about to go in for blood tests to see if he can have his bypass redone and I don't really want to bother him with this either. It seems like all this shit is coming on me at once, and yes, part of it is I feel helpless. The other part of it, is I feel out of control and it's driving me bonkers. It may seem that I'm just tryiing to complain and make the world feel sorry for me. Truth is, maybe that's half true. I know I will get over it. But, for right now, I feel okay with just feeling these feelings even if it's all a waste of time or even if it's doing me no good.