Bumping this just because I don't feel like starting a new thread and it's related.
So obviously this situation with this girl didn't work. At the moment I'm talking to 4 girls. Katie, Christine, Kristen, and Cheri.
Christine and Kristen are girls for when there is nothing on TV or I haven't gotten any in a bit. Nothing more, pretty much friends with benefits. Both are aware of the situation. I'm friends with them, they are friends with me, nothing more will happen, but hooking up with no strings attached is OK with them. They actually know about each other. Anyway....
Katie. My freshman crush at college. That didn't pan out, we became good friends, always talked and hung out literally as friends, but recently started hooking up(never did in college). Not really sure what the fuck is going on there.
Now, for why I bumped the thread. Cheri. Amazing girl. Hot, funny, all about me, etc. The problem- I have hooked up with her before but it only became consistent RIGHT after Meg(girl the thread is about). It is almost as if she was my consolation prize for not getting Meg. I didn't want it to be that way, she didn't want to be my rebound, but it didn't really matter because frankly, there is only something between us because the situation with Meg didn't work out.
Now when I say she is all about me, I mean it. She is exclusive with me without a title. She will call me to talk about nothing, I have gone to her house to eat dinner with the parents, etc. I have no problem with this but I really don't think I want it to get any more serious. Nothing against her at all. It's actually me. I'm not one to go from one serious thing to another. I need a decent amount of time in between. IDK why, I just do.
I realize I should probably just lay it out for her, but I guess I'm bitching out and just want to hear Hondaswap's opinion on it...