I have dated... 6-7 other people since the ex. None of those girls have really sparked my interest to take the next step. Most of them want sex... and I give it to them. But I am realizing now that I am never going to find a quality girl at the bar... So I never look for them there anymore.
Oh and you guys have heard the situations I have typed... nothing hurts more than your EX of 4 years getting pregnant by the guy she was cheating on you with.. then getting a smushmortion and asking to date again. When I said no... she screwed another guy the following weekend, and she was so drunk she didnt remember if they used protection... so she looked towards the morning after pill for help.
The girl is a train wreck now... she started out drug free but in the past 10 months she has experimented with coke, bumping adderall, smoking pot, excessive blacking out while drinking, and sleeping with random dudes. She trumped my total of 'after relationship' partners.
I have actually starting 'dating' a girl meet through work. She no longer works on the campus... so I dont have to worry about the drama of work relationships. I am going up her place in 2 weeks for a 4 night stay (2 hours north) so hopefully we hash things out before I come home. The odd thing is.. the ex's boyfriend lives in the same neighborhood >.<