14k ring, you could talk they salesman down to 10k. Wave cash at his face. But collect the 14000 bj's.
Or be a real dick, get a similar (but better looking) ring in white gold and CZ and collect 14k BJs for ~$100.
Me? I bought my wife the biggest baddest ring I could afford. And she has scratched the everloving fuck out of me with said ring multiple times, drawing blood here and there. She even destroyed the driver's window tint on the integra by scratching the window reaching for the seat belt.
Then I bought her some nice, flawless, certified, platinum set diamond earrings. Gorgeous. Fucking beautiful. I shopped for earrings for months before I found the perfect set. I laid down a retarded amount of money, and now one of them is fucking missing.
Lesson learned? Perhaps I'll become the ~$100 cz dick.