Everything that we do, as humans, is sexually criminal to each other. Women to men, Men to women. From the writing of the first KamaSutra (And even to good ol' fashioned caveman gang rape) it's all so wrong.
We each, as genders, treat each other like shit. Even loving relationships have some form of sexual abuse / mis-use of sex.
zillions of people use it to get what they want. Zillions more buy their way into a stinky hole. People sell their own souls to get a piece of pussy or dick. It's sad. I'm not part of it anymore.
Listen, I have all sorts of other girls out there that I totally dig. But to entertain the thought of carrying on relations with them, and giving up what I already have is insulting to the girl that I currently have. In fact, without it being stated face-to-face to her, it's the gravest insult I can offer.
Yet everyday, again - zillions of people do just that.
The ultimate solution is to change your views on sex, the opposite gender, and what sex means to you.
And yes, kissing counts. It's a precursor and while there is 0 chance of it going anywhere further (In most cases) it's still a precursor - a step in that direction. All the justification in the world won't change that.
I expect a certain list of Hondaswappers to go ahead and start listing off their justifications. I also expect the more intelligent honda swappers to see right through their ignorant brain droppings.
-=> s