Happened to me too... fiancee broke up with me out of the blue

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FLounder

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Interesting to re-read that B. Yeah, things kinda turned to suck, instead of planning a wedding. Its for the best, even though its still hard sometimes. Miss those dogs more than anything.
 

Briansol

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if what you miss the most is the dogs, good riddance to her :)
 

get_nick

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if what you miss the most is the dogs, good riddance to her :)

Sounds like it should have ended years ago and it was simply a relationship of comfort and convenience. If you are engaged for more than a year without a date being set, you're fucking up. There's no reason to stay with someone who doesn't excite you and light a little fire in you. Just cut ties and move on.
 

TurboMirage

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If you are engaged for more than a year without a date being set, you're fucking up.

lol, wat?

there are plenty of people out there content... not engaged and not married. its just not the same as it was. i dont believe in it personally, but i put a ring on it to satisfy her needs.
 

Jeef

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I didn't have a date set for 3 years after we were engaged and married now. We did have some money issues since we paid for it.
 

get_nick

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there are plenty of people out there content... not engaged and not married. its just not the same as it was. i dont believe in it personally, but i put a ring on it to satisfy her needs.

I'm not saying you have to be engaged or married. I'm saying, don't just throw a ring on a girls finger to shut her up. If you propose, shit or get off the pot. Jeef is a little different. If you are planning it, it's one thing. But just sitting around for years is stupid.
 
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D16Civic

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Yeah dude I would rethink why you put a ring on it if it was to satisfy her needs.

This is probably another thread altogether but lets just say I've been there and did that. We're essentially married roommates now.
 

TurboMirage

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i don't see a future without her in it. but like i said my values are different. i truly can't complain about anything and i like our relationship. and i value it.

regardless this isnt my thread, and another thread isnt needed. im fine. shes happy with an engagement ring, and the world still turns.
 

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for now....
I agree. With no date set, I believe there is an unknown time span for an engagement. She don't know this amount of time until she looks at things in retrospect. Then she'll feel it's been too long.
 

FLounder

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Hey im not trying to imply anything here, and i wish you all the best Turbo.... but a long, easy (almost too easy) engagement didnt work out in my case.
 

hondarin

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i don't see a future without her in it. but like i said my values are different. i truly can't complain about anything and i like our relationship. and i value it.

regardless this isnt my thread, and another thread isnt needed. im fine. shes happy with an engagement ring, and the world still turns.
If she had a need for a ring, then she has a need for a wedding.
 

Taco15

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annnnnnd I'm back. been so long and just stumbled across this. As much as I hate to say this....I'm on the opposite end of your situation. I can understand where she's coming from and why they say what they say. most of that stuff she says are simply to hide the truth to not hurt you anymore than what she knows she will initially. I'm sure she still loves you but the feelings are gone. no sense in trying anymore man. not worth it if she's said no more than 3 times. It's time to do it for yourself and move on.

TRUST me. I'm going through the same EXACT thing.
 
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