You're the dumbass, Dumbass. I have a Vega with no engine and a CRX with no engine. I ride a bike. If it's so important to her that someone has a car, let her get a car.
I'll get a car, but right now I have to do grown-up things like pay a mortgage and keep myself above water.
This isn't the first 19 - 24 year old I've dated since my split. I'm not too worried about finding another "trophy girlfriend". I really like this girl , even outside of all the x-factors. The others were vapid and completely uninteresting. This girl is just on the edge, and I'm not going to walk on eggshells to keep her around. I can't, I'm too "all over the map" to work with this kind of personality.
My ex was like this too, but a bit more passive agressive about it. She was always "wanting" to do something, but rejected all of my ideas, and then called me "boring" for not being able to entertain her. When the bike came along, I was completely gone from her schedule and she looked elsewhere for a boyfriend who was boring like her.
This isn't who I am. Hanging around with me, there is no time to drink and party. I'm too occupied with travel, going to museums, meeting new people, making a mark - Just to name a few.