Seems to be the summer of break ups. I have been with my girl for almost 8 years. Engaged for the last 5. We had a great relationship, been through a lot together, but never any internal problems between us. We have mostly similar interests, with a few differences, but i always thought it was the perfect ratio. About a month ago, she woke me up in the middle of the night crying and wanting to talk. Said she wasnt happy anymore, felt like i didnt respect her, and was too comfortable. I was like whoa, ok, ill work on that asap. Our relationship was way too deep to not try really hard to work it out, i told her. Since then she has seemed happy again, great sex and spent lots of time together. Her parents were in town last week and she started getting kinda bitchy, but i thought it was just because she was annoyed with her mom (this has happened before). Literally an hour after she dropped them off at the airport, she came to me and said she was done and had to move on.
WTF is really all i can say. She cant really give me good examples of why she isnt happy or what she wants out of life in the future. She is very vague and that makes it harder. She swears she has never cheated, she "has too much respect and love for me." I feel like she might have someone else in mind or something. I make nearly twice the money she does and have supported her nice comfy lifestyle for the last 7+ years. She cant even pay her own bills without my help. This makes me think she has something in mind for the future and doesnt want to tell me.
Now we are in a weird state of limbo, where we are broken up, but she has no where to go. Says she needs a couple weeks to move out. She has moved into our guest bedroom, and has now started trying to act normal, like nothing is really wrong after only two days. Im obviously heart broken and confused and just like wtf do i do now. On top of that, my landlord just told me they are selling the house i live in. Fuck me. I just hate that the future is so uncertain right now.
Cliffs: GF broke up with me with not much explanation, landlord selling my house, shes still living with me, and im like WTF!
WTF is really all i can say. She cant really give me good examples of why she isnt happy or what she wants out of life in the future. She is very vague and that makes it harder. She swears she has never cheated, she "has too much respect and love for me." I feel like she might have someone else in mind or something. I make nearly twice the money she does and have supported her nice comfy lifestyle for the last 7+ years. She cant even pay her own bills without my help. This makes me think she has something in mind for the future and doesnt want to tell me.
Now we are in a weird state of limbo, where we are broken up, but she has no where to go. Says she needs a couple weeks to move out. She has moved into our guest bedroom, and has now started trying to act normal, like nothing is really wrong after only two days. Im obviously heart broken and confused and just like wtf do i do now. On top of that, my landlord just told me they are selling the house i live in. Fuck me. I just hate that the future is so uncertain right now.
Cliffs: GF broke up with me with not much explanation, landlord selling my house, shes still living with me, and im like WTF!