Dustin_m
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we both are against abortion, but then again this is not a good time for us to have a kid. shes a year from her bachelors degree, and i still got a long time left for mine, but i want to stay in school.
How inconvenient for you. Kill the little bastard, its ok. Would hate for you to have to inconvenience YOUR life.
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[/quote]Okay, first off, i didnt finish the post cause i was busy. She is the one that is considering the abortion. I want to have it. I hate aborton and couldnt do that. I already told her that i would drop everything to work and care for the child. i really would like to get married, but we aren't sure right now. basically when we broke up, it was on good terms, its just that at this point i our lives we wanted different things. we still have feelings for each other though. Basically i let her know that if she does want to have it, i will go active duty, we could get married and teh Marine Corp will pay for pretty much everything, so now the coice is on her. I can't force her one way or another, i just let her know that i am right there with her through it all and am leaving it up to her.
I think you understood it like i was saying we were thinking of having the abortion becasue a kid would be an inconvenience. true it would change everything, but i dont see it as an inconvenience.