my experience with match.com was less than great; that site for my area = a big booty call. that wasn't what i was looking for. eharmony wasn't a bad experience...really....except that the one person i decided to crawl out from under my rock and meet just was not into me, in person. sigh. = my foray into online dating.
but i'm totally a fan of hanging out in places you like to be, and doing things you like to do, and letting the scenario play out where someone else (that's available) likes and does the same things. seems to work pretty damn good.