Celerity
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then play a different slot machine.
you are the old guy thats been sitting at the same machine the whole time, the one that gets the small payouts but just cant seem to hit the jackpot.
if you arent getting the results that you wish to have, then that means that in your equation the constant variable is going to be you, honost, and nice.
Side note: im a very honost person, i wont lie to anybody just to spare their feelings or for any other reason. the beauty of honesty is that it is mistaken for being an asshole. bc you wont sugarcoat something, or hide something bc you know it will be hard on them, people will think you are an asshole.
whereas the last time the constant was that girls like assholes, and you changed the variable of yourself
so that means that you are going to have to change around the other variables to successfully complete your equation.
All understood, now. This theory of mine is now 2 days old. knowing what I know now, I'll give it a shot for a while and report my findings. But if I'm right, then I've corrected the info given to me from my personal bible, www.relationshit.com.
The Asshole idea is very truncated. You aren't "just an asshole" to someone to make them love you. What you do need to do, in most relationships not just intimate ones, is switch things up a bit. Perhaps most people don't want the consistency in a man that treats them like a queen all the time. You should pull in and push out occasionally just to break monotony. When I date a girl I worship the ground she walks on - if I don't, then I'm not the person that will take a bullet for her. So to those ends, I typically remain steady in my behavior to them - completely dedicated. Last time, that dedication wasn't -at all- reciprocated so my lesson this time is that I'll play my game as long it's played back. Someone who dedicates themselves to taking a bullet for me is now a necessity. But I digress: Back on topic.
I don't NEED to play the slots. This thread is just a realization that slots are being played, and it's complete horseshit (Closer to being solved). This is by no means the ends.
Realizing that routine "Addictive" behavior nets results that aren't in my favor, I can now work diligently on a routine or behavior that DOES net results in my favor.
I bring this to you people because I believe that the advice of playing cool, popping your collar and all the rest of the crap we see in movies is NOT reality - Reality is a completely random thing.
Next I'm going to plug all of this into quantum physics models to see if it matches (and I believe it will) the art of choices, states of being and quantum observation. If it does fit, then I will be able to superimpose my (the basic) understanding of Quantum Physics over reality and be able to come up with some more concrete techniques and results.
Yes, my experiment with Rum was off - But not by much. I mean come on, I was totally schnockered at the time. What it does prove is that being an asshole doesn't work - nor should it - But it seems that it does because a vast majority of people experiencing "good luck" with women are in fact - complete assholes. and that is skewing experimental data more than me drinking too much and finally getting though to a loser how much of a loser she is. Observe:
"Would you fuck me for $5?"
"No way!"
"How about 2.5 Million dollars?"
"Well, sure!"
"Ok, we've established what you are, now we are only negotiating price."
(That conversation, by the way, is close to a Churchill quote, which is the basis of this ENTIRE experiment)
So again, I HAVE been playing slots in this game. I realise that. I contend that most people do - the slot analogy is not just reserved for this argument - it's actually a metaphor used when discussing Addiction (In the Hindi sense) and how everyday we are faced with millions of choices, and yet choose pretty much the same thing everyday (Quantum Physics on reality). We do so, so that we may hang onto the things that we are addicted to: A house, bills paid, internet service and a girlfriend that gives us what we are looking for.
Quantum physics only points out that we have the ability to do so much more, but choose not to. Addiction studies show us why. Breaking that addiction is key to changing the behavior and opening more doors to us to choose from.
You can feel free to point what I've done wrong, been doing wrong, or whatever floats your boat: I agree. I've been doing things wrong. If I weren't, I would be the happiest person on earth. As long as you can understand with an open mind that you aren't either: This may be or may not be the key to what works for you. I feel it will.